Do you think about and feel responsible for -- other people's feelings, thoughts, actions, choices, wants, needs, well-being, lack of well-being, and ultimate destiny?

 

Do you feel anxiety or guilt when other people have a problem, and almost feel compelled to help that person-by giving rapid fire suggestions for fixing their feelings?

 

Do you over commit? Then, feel pissed at the other person?

 

Do you sometimes feel like you're “crazy?” 

Do you reject praise or compliments, then get depressed because no one compliments you? 

Have you been the victim of abuse (sexual, physical, or emotional), neglect, abandonment, or alcoholism?

 

Do you feel the need to be in control or have others called you controlling? 

Do you lose sleep over other people's problems or behaviors? 

Do you wonder why you don't have any energy?

 

Do you overspend, overeat, overwork, and deny these are problem areas for you? 

Do you tolerate abuse to keep people loving you? 

Do you look for happiness outside of yourself? (Maybe in other people or material things?) 

Do you find yourself in or stay in "painful" relationships? (Abusive, non-compatible, etc..)

Do you think God has abandoned you?

 

Do you cry a lot, get depressed, overeat, get sick, do mean and nasty things to get even, act hostile, or have violent temper outbursts? 

Do you feel scared, hurt and angry? 

Do you have problems during sexual activity? 

Have you not sought help in the past because you tell yourself the problems aren't that bad, or you aren't important enough to receive it?